Tag: THREE TIMES

This morning I had one of those moments, upon waking, with a quote from scripture in my thoughts, the verse was Jesus’ words on the cross:

[Luk 23:34 NIV] 34 Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” And they divided up his clothes by casting lots.

When I reflect on this verse, I see how compassionate Jesus is to these people: he sees beyond their actions, understands their ignorance and asks the Father to forgive them. Thinking about how this verse applies to all of us today: Let’s pray that we may see others the way Jesus sees them.

This is the third time within a week that the topic of forgiveness came up: first as I was recording a podcast (#974: Psalm 58 on Friday) next on Wednesday in a Bible Study conversation and now as I woke up (Friday morning). During the past seven years studing the bible, I’ve noticed that important matters are often repeated by God in “3s” and because this is the third time that “Forgiveness” has been repeated, I decided it was time to write about this subject and what scripture tells us. I don’t know why this subject has been put in front of me personally because there is no one I can think of that I haven’t forgiven. So hopefully this is meaningful to someone who reads this!

FORGIVING OTHERS

It’s hard to forgive others when they’ve hurt us badly, but we can trust in God, that justice will prevail through Him, it is according to His time, not ours. And remember this too:

[2Pe 3:9 NIV] 9 The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.

It’s important to read this in context, a letter from Peter, one of the 12 disciples:

[2Pe 3:1-18 NIV] 1 Dear friends, this is now my second letter to you. I have written both of them as reminders to stimulate you to wholesome thinking. 2 I want you to recall the words spoken in the past by the holy prophets and the command given by our Lord and Savior through your apostles. 3 Above all, you must understand that in the last days scoffers will come, scoffing and following their own evil desires. 4 They will say, “Where is this ‘coming’ he promised? Ever since our ancestors died, everything goes on as it has since the beginning of creation.” 5 But they deliberately forget that long ago by God’s word the heavens came into being and the earth was formed out of water and by water. 6 By these waters also the world of that time was deluged and destroyed. 7 By the same word the present heavens and earth are reserved for fire, being kept for the day of judgment and destruction of the ungodly. 8 But do not forget this one thing, dear friends: With the Lord a day is like a thousand years, and a thousand years are like a day. 9 The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance. 10 But the day of the Lord will come like a thief. The heavens will disappear with a roar; the elements will be destroyed by fire, and the earth and everything done in it will be laid bare. 11 Since everything will be destroyed in this way, what kind of people ought you to be? You ought to live holy and godly lives 12 as you look forward to the day of God and speed its coming. That day will bring about the destruction of the heavens by fire, and the elements will melt in the heat. 13 But in keeping with his promise we are looking forward to a new heaven and a new earth, where righteousness dwells. 14 So then, dear friends, since you are looking forward to this, make every effort to be found spotless, blameless and at peace with him. 15 Bear in mind that our Lord’s patience means salvation, just as our dear brother Paul also wrote you with the wisdom that God gave him. 16 He writes the same way in all his letters, speaking in them of these matters. His letters contain some things that are hard to understand, which ignorant and unstable people distort, as they do the other Scriptures, to their own destruction. 17 Therefore, dear friends, since you have been forewarned, be on your guard so that you may not be carried away by the error of the lawless and fall from your secure position. 18 But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen.

Jesus said this about forgiveness:

[Mat 6:14-15 NIV] 14 For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.

[Mat 18:21-22 NIV] 21 Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?” 22 Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.

If we don’t forgive others, this is what Jesus says will happen to us (you can read the entire parable in Matthew 18:21-35):

[Mat 18:34-35 NIV] 34 In anger his master handed him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed. 35 “This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart.”

Jesus also said:

[Mar 11:25 NIV] 25 And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.”

[Luk 6:37 NIV] 37 “Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.

[Luk 11:4 NIV] 4 Forgive us our sins, for we also forgive everyone who sins against us. And lead us not into temptation.’ “

[Luk 17:3-4 NIV] 3 So watch yourselves. “If your brother or sister (fellow disciple) sins against you, rebuke them; and if they repent, forgive them. 4 Even if they sin against you seven times in a day and seven times come back to you saying ‘I repent,’ you must forgive them.”

Forgiveness is challenging on our own, but with the Holy Spirit; it is possible.

POWER FROM GOD OVER THE ENEMY, STRONGHOLDS, SATAN AND SIN

Notice in the verse above that people under the power of the devil needed “healing,” Could that be emotional healing? Could this be one of the ways that Satan affects relationships: working through people who do not yet have the Holy Spirit to cause harm to others? Have you ever heard the saying: “Hurt people hurt people”? So ultimately the “enemy” succeeds in perpetuating “unforgiveness” if we decide to retaliate, or if we don’t forgive. Leave it to God. God is just. God will handle it righteously.

Scripture also tells us:

[Eph 4:26-27 NIV] 26 “In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, 27 and do not give the devil a foothold. (foothold is described as “the opportunity” or “license”)

The following is the assignment Jesus gave Paul when he appeared to (Saul) Paul on the road to Damascus:

[Act 26:18 NIV] 18 to open their eyes and turn them from darkness to light, and from the power of Satan to God, so that they may receive forgiveness of sins and a place among those who are sanctified by faith in me.‘

Later, Paul says this to the Romans about being under the power of sin:

[Rom 3:9 NIV] 9 What shall we conclude then? Do we have any advantage? Not at all! For we have already made the charge that Jews and Gentiles alike are all under the power of sin.

What is the power of sin? The Law. Paul says this:

[1Co 15:56-57 NIV] 56 The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. 57 But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.

Paul also says this about DIVINE POWER (in those who have received the Holy Spirit) to DEMOLISH STRONGHOLDS:

[2Co 10:4 NIV] 4 The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds.

[Eph 6:12 NIV] 12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.

Paul asked God to take away the messenger from Satan who was tormenting Paul but God allowed this torment to keep Paul from becoming conceited, so that Paul would experience the POWER from God when he was weak (not of his own power)!

[2Co 12:9 NIV] 9 But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.

We can learn from this example that while we may be weak; God is NOT weak and His Spirit can overcome whatever power or stronghold is affecting us.

Reading scripture it becomes clear that before we have faith in Jesus Christ and receive the Holy Spirit, we all are under the power of the enemy of God, a slave to sin, but that changes when we become children of God.

CHILDREN OF GOD

[1Jo 3:10 NIV] 10 This is how we know who the children of God are and who the children of the devil are: Anyone who does not do what is right is not God’s child, nor is anyone who does not love their brother and sister.

[1Jo 5:1-5 NIV] 1 Everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ is born of God, and everyone who loves the father loves his child as well. 2 This is how we know that we love the children of God: by loving God and carrying out his commands. 3 In fact, this is love for God: to keep his commands. And his commands are not burdensome, 4 for everyone born of God overcomes the world. This is the victory that has overcome the world, even our faith. 5 Who is it that overcomes the world? Only the one who believes that Jesus is the Son of God.

[Rom 8:14-15 NIV] 14 For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God. 15 The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, “Abba, Father.”

[Rom 8:17, 19 NIV] 17 Now if we are children, then we are heirs–heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory. … 19 For the creation waits in eager expectation for the children of God to be revealed.

[Mat 5:9 NIV] 9 Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.

[Jhn 1:12 NIV] 12 Yet to all who did receive him (Jesus), to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God–

[Jhn 11:49-52 NIV] 49 Then one of them, named Caiaphas, who was high priest that year, spoke up, “You know nothing at all! 50 You do not realize that it is better for you that one man die for the people than that the whole nation perish.” 51 He did not say this on his own, but as high priest that year he prophesied that Jesus would die for the Jewish nation, 52 and not only for that nation but also for the scattered children of God, to bring them together and make them one.

Those led by the Spirit can be identified by their actions. Paul explains in Galatians 5:

[Gal 5:16-25 NIV] 16 So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. 17 For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever you want. 18 But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law. 19 The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; 20 idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions 21 and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God. 22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23 gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. 24 Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. 25 Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.